Friday, May 25, 2012

First Weeks


It’s hard to believe that I’ve only been here for a short time. The past two weeks have seemed to fly by, and though they certainly haven’t been easy, they’ve been some of the most rewarding days I’ve had so far (yes…as in, my life).

The buildup to leaving was a very stressful time. It seems to be an impossible task to pack up everything you own, say goodbye to loved ones, and then jet off halfway across the world to start a new life. Even as I was being driven to the airport (after having finished packing last minute as always) it all seemed a bit surreal. Is this it? I’m really going to be joining the Peace Corps?! Of course, in hindsight, the packing and flying were the easy part. Staging in Philadelphia was the typical orientation. Topics including hard pressing issues such as: hopes and fears, what did want to get out of the experience, why did we join, what is the weirdest things we packed? These two days were very hard for me, the buildup reminded me a lot of a roller coaster, it takes forever to get to the top but you know that once you do you’ll be in for a wild ride.


After staging we spent the next day (literally) flying, from JFK New York to Brussels, and finally down to Kigali, Rwanda. When the plane landed late that night, I was a mess. To put it nicely. I had thrown up, slept way too much, had no idea what time it was (or what day for that matter). As we descended the steps I was nervous, excited, panicked, eager, anxious. As I saw my bag coming down the baggage claim belt I was relieved and ready. Before I knew it we were shuffled out and into vans that would normally house…hostages (?), and taken to the Peace Corps compound in downtown Kigali. The air was cool and misty, and as we unloaded bags it began to rain lightly. The first night at the compound was interesting. Some people zonked out, while others (myself included) rolled around for most of the night. Add to that some of the crazy side effects from my malarial prophylaxis and it was not a good night. I fell asleep promptly around noon the next day during a quickie language class (quickie only in the sense that it was meant to teach us enough to navigate our first night with the host family).

Our group is a small one composed of all health volunteers. We range in ages 22-(well there is someone older but there is no way I’m going to ask how old), but I would say on average about 27. We come from different backgrounds, races, religions, states (although 4 from Wisconsin!), and experiences. Despite all of this, we’ve come to know each other well over the past few weeks and have bonded like old friends. Which is good, because without a good support network this would be a nearly impossible task.


After spending two days at the compound, we hit the ground running. We packed our bags and were bused to the District of Kamonyi, where we will be living for the first ten weeks of service. In the center of Kamonyi is the Peace Corps hub where we meet for technical training twice a week. The first day we entered the hub the entire one half of the room was full of Rwandan families. One by one a family would stand and say their name, and the director of Housing would announce their new son/daughter. It was full of awkward moments, but the whole time we were laughing (some crying) and almost dying of excitement. My host dad was there to greet me and eventually take me to my house. My dad is the town tailor, and our house lies on the main road (or The Strip, as I like to call it). Along with my host mom, I have a little brother and sister, 12 and 7. As far as living situations go, I couldn’t have gotten luckier. Each day is new and exciting, and of course full of awkward moments.

Training is definitely an intense process, and perhaps the most intense component is learning the national language of Rwanda, Kinyarwanda. I’ve read in some places that Kinyarwanda is one of the most difficult languages in the world to learn, and I would be apt to agree. I wish I could go back in time and kick myself in the balls for ever thinking Spanish was a challenge. A few reasons why: it’s a tonal language (so depending on what syllable you put emphasis on the meaning of the word can change), almost every word looks the same (memorizing vocab lists is near impossible), there are sixteen noun classes (English has two), and everytime I want to tell someone that I am a volunteer I have to say ‘Ndi umukorerabushake.’ Despite the difficulties, I feel like I am making progress, and I’m excited to see where I’ll be at in another eight weeks.

All in all this has been an incredibly rewarding experience and it’s hard to believe that it’s just getting started. Internet here is spotty, and none of the modems work with my computer. Because of that I can’t really check facebook that often, but really…that’s a good thing. My plan is to write up blog entries on Word, and then just upload them to the internet once I track down someone with internet. It seems impossible to describe everything that’s happened, so I’ll leave you with some of the craziest/best/worst/ moments so far.

Sipping home brewed banana beer out of a jerry can. Gross. Being called muzungu everywhere I go. Annoying but I’m getting used to it. Sitting through a five hour church service. Horrible! The satisfaction of carrying on a conversation with someone in Kinyarwanda. Rewarding. Looking up at the night sky and seeing more stars than ever before. Watching a storm cloud rush from one mountain to yours. Feeling the fog descend and seep in through the windows. Watching the sunset from your front porch and pinching yourself because you’ve never seen anything quite so beautiful.

Incredible.

Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Packing...ugh

I absolutely hate packing. The only thing that's worse is unpacking. Now while I admit that there is some bizarre satisfaction that comes with finding ways to cram everything into a small pack, packing is where some of my obsessive compulsions take over. I managed to mash all of my clothes into one suitcase, with mash being the operative word. I mean, once those shirts and pants are taken out they are going to be way wrinkly. I hate wrinkly clothes. Almost as much as I hate packing.


On a positive note, once I packed my bags and lifted them I was positive that I would be way over the 100 lbs we are allowed. Turns out I'm good, very good to be exact. All of my clothes came in at roughly thirty pounds. I haven't weighed the other suitcase yet but I'm highly doubting that it is going to be over 70. Now, the dimensions of my bags is pushing it a bit, but I'm just hoping the airport people let that slide.

At some point I would like to put together a list of everything I've packed, but for now...I'm too tired to even think about it.